Friday, 30 January 2009
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Just Imagine
If you were single
And a well-known celebrity had the hots for you
But would only date you IF
You kept the dating relationship a Total Secret.
Would you agree to those terms and take da plunge?
Why or why not?
Be real now. Explain yourself. And please don't hold back.
I'm curious to know what you all think.
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Comments (32)
Oh heavens YES. If William Petersen , Liam Neeson, or Jake Weber had the hots for me and I weren't married to the most precious man in the world, I'd jump. I think I'd prefer the relationship to stay secret anyway. The media seems to enjoy all too much trashing and attacking relationships and suddenly, one difference in opinion is blown into "divorce looms for____________" I think the Hollywood types don't get enough privacy.
If she wants it kept secret because of her, then maybe. I respect a persons desire for privacy.
If she wants it kept quiet because she doesn't want to be seen slumming with me....then I call the tabloids and entertain offers on the sex tapes.
I wouldn't now because I'm engaged. Even if I wasn't engaged, I don't care about dating someone just because he is a celebrity.
If anything, it would make me more uncomfortable to be with someone whether it's a celebrity or not who wanted to keep a serious relationship secret.
Depending on the celebrity, probably. Like, if it were Corbin Blue or Kevin Jonas, heck yes. But maybe I'm just obsessed...or desperate.
I wouldn't do it. Who says I have the hots for this well known celebrity? Besides, I don't want my relationship to be a secret. I could understand that he might want to keep it a secret to avoid tabloids, but that just comes with the territory of being a celebrity. I'm not saying I want to be at premieres or anything, but I'd like to share with the people who are closest to me. Why does it have to be a total secret? I'd want what goes on in our relationship to be a total secret, but not our actual relationship. The fact that we're dating is all I need other people to know and respect. Oh and I want to show off that awesome fish I caught!
As long as they understood that I am coin operated.
Hmm...honestly, how long can a celebrity keep a relationship a secret due to paparatzi?...not long. But if he wanted me to keep it secret due to his privacy, fine. If it was because he was ashamed to be with a normal everyday girl, then no I wouldn't even start in a relationship like that. Not worth all the money in the world or gifts he might give me would make me do that, it would just be headed for heartache and failure I think.
So there's my 2cents. And I adore Matthew Mccaughney. But still. no way if it's because of the latter.
What about YOU Sir DC? Hmm?? ;)
Hell yes. If we're talking love and intimate connection with some hot, celebrity then be certain that I wouldn't need to in the public eye for it.
I don't need fame, just love.
I think I would have to hear the motive but in general I would say no.
Unless it was Jessica Alba.
@IfWallsCouldTalk21 - no can do.
what good would it be if i can't brag to my buddies about it?!?!
I've had two girldriends who had kept their rel;ationship a secret and in both cases they were cheating on me. There is no way I would be able to do it. It would be one thing to shut out the general public, but unless she was willing to at least tell her friends and family and be ok with me telling mine, then the deal would be off. Not a chance. I want to be with a person who is actually proud to be with me... not ashamed or that feels they have something to hide. I won't EVER do that again.
Not telling anyone would be REALLY difficult. But, I think it would be worth it. I have several celebrity crushes: Halle Berry, Jessica Biel, Helena Bonham-Carter, Kate Winslet, and Megan Fox, among others. For any of those, I'd be willing to accept virtually any condition.
I would totally agree to keep the relationship under wraps.
Why?
Even though I don't really have anything to hide:
I wouldn't want Perez Hilton or TMZ digging into my past;
I wouldn't like the Paparazzi constantly in my grill;
I wouldn't want to be target practice for Chelsea Lately or Talk Soup;
I wouldn't want to the subject of gossip on The View.
I wouldn't want to have to listen to the player haters go "what is a hottie like her doin' going out with a shmo like him" talk;
(BTW, would you be able allowed to tell the Parents or is that verbotten as well?)
No. That wouldn't be satisfying at all. That wouldn't be a real relationship. It would be a fantasy and I want real.
Are you talking about poor Turtle and Jamie Lynn here?
If it was one of the celebs in my pantheon of hotties, um, yeah, I'd do it. I never had any self-respect when dating losers as a young woman so why worry about dignity for someone really cool?
I'd think if you really respected and cared for the person, you could keep the secret.
It depends on what the reason is for wanting to keep the relationship a secret. If it's because she doesn't want a lot of paparazi (fck the spllng) about a new relationship and all that other bullshit, then I'd be okay with it. If it was because she could get way more attractive guys and is embarrassed of me, then that's fcked up and I wouldn't be a part of a relationship like that.
I don't think I could do that, knowing how it goes with just a regular person. you want your relationship to be, to be able to be seen in public and stuff...........UNLESS we're talking about Dwayne Johnson/The Rock...in which case, bring him on! lol
NO! If he wants to be with me, than he should let the whole damn world know that he is mine, and i'm his. PERIOD! i'm not sharing my man!
Why would you tell ANYONE if you were dating a popular celebrity? If anyone knew, the media would hound you. WHo would want that? Better to keep the secret instead of having paparazzi showing up at your doorstep or outside of your job. Normal people shouldn't have to deal with that.
I'm not keeping a relationship a secret that's insane
It would depend on the celebrity, but for the right one, absolutely yes. A secret relationship is better than no relationship at all, and given the general scatter-brainedness of my friends, they probably wouldn't notice I was disappearing for extended periods, and/or would buy easily whatever excuses I came up with.
:ahem: FUCK THAT! I've got some dignity. I think it's important for a person to value themselves as much as they say they value the person they love. Neither one of us would be expressing sufficient self-love under such conditions.
If David Tennant wanted to have anything to do with me I imagine I'd put up with just about anything for a shot at that slice of Scottish sexiness. YUM.
I'd do him so good he wouldn't WANT to keep me a secret. RAWR.